My Coat of Arms (Emblem): The Food of Love

“To Live, you must eat. To eat, you must live!"
The French coined this phrase, and their reasoning is right.


In my opinion, the full course meal is the "raison d'etre" or the reason to embrace life. Like the French, I believe it is compulsory to remain at the dinner table for some three hours.

When I was a little girl, my family was very poor. Sometimes, we didn't have "enough" to eat--to truly feel full and satisfied.

So, when my brothers and I were young, we used to say that in the future, we will eat with "fork, spoon and knife". We ate with spoons only and to us that was a symbol of our poverty. We thought it would be amusing to invent a phrase that would not only describe our situation, but predict our bountiful futures.

Today, I am no longer poor, but my heart remains close to the heart of those whose souls are rich, though their lifestyles may be mired in poverty. My joy is in knowing that as I eat with "fork, spoon and knife" so do others because of my personal & my company's commitment to charitable organizations. We give as generously as we can to many of these organizations who do the day-to-day work: FEED, Women for Women International, Charity Water and World Food Programme to name a few.

I went from adoring the beautiful foods in magazines to enjoying the creative expression in food preparation. I celebrate from the moment I enter the grocery store to the moment we say "let's eat!" and my family and friends know that for me this is my purest expression of the love I feel for them.  

I see a future, in about two years from these "today's" when I will be an owner of a small in, in my village Home-Back Home in Antigua.


I see the smiles on the faces of my guests and I hear the words in the wind that expand my heart. "Quand on mange Chez Monique, on mange un morceau d'amour!" When you eat a Monique's Place, you eat a morsel of love. 

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